Last week - a week ago today - the BB turned one month old. As I am sure you can imagine, I am behind in my posts - I have a ton of things to get up, and one day that will happen. Today, I'll try to get a post up about BB being one month old.
The quilt Nana made for BB!
One week on Nana's quilt
Of course LM has to be part of the quilt photos!
What do we know about this child? He has a very sweet disposition, usually. The only things that get him going are, in no particular order - gas, being hungry, trying to get him to sleep on his own in the cradle, and changing his diaper. The last one - not that he wants his diaper changed - the actual act of changing the diaper is what he doesn't like. Other than these items, he is a mellow fellow, just like his brother was at this age.
Two weeks on Nana's quilt
This was to rule out a genetic disorder called hirschsprung's disease. This test was also negative, and it was now the weekend. We were to watch him over the weekend (we had some techniques to help with the pooping and the distension had gone down quite a bit) and if all was the same, go see the pediatric gastroenterologist on Monday. Thankfully, he started pooping like a champ over the weekend! And, his regular doctor, at his one month appointment last week, feels he probably had a lot of gas and a little constriction that was fixed with all those procedures. Everyone seems to agree we are over this issue! Yay! And, this is when you know you are a parent - when you write an entire paragraph about pooping and it doesn't even seem strange. Ahem.
At the hospital - IV still in, but procedures over - little grin
Every once in a while, the baby boy looks up at me and looks happy to have me there - when he has been with other people, he looks relieved to have me back when I take him into my arms. And, from time to time, he rewards us with a smile - I don't even care if it's real or not. See previous paragraph.
Three weeks old on Nana's quilt
Let's see - he flops his head around a lot - lifts it to look around, and helps reinforce his rooting when he is ready to eat. He doesn't mind "tummy time" at all. He really seems to love seeing and listening to his big brother, and the Little Man seems to finally be getting how fragile his is and how to handle him. In fact, I was trying to get a shower in this morning, and toward the end of this endeavor, BB started getting fussy. I asked LM to come by and "talk to him" to see if that would distract him enough for me to finish. LM comes in and says, "Good Morning buddy, how are you today?" And then, "Do you like SMU football?" When he started fussing, LM said, "It's OK, you'll like it when you get a little bit older" and then starts singing to him. It was so cute to me, and so precious.
One month on Nana's quilt
Since he doesn't like (won't) sleep in the cradle on his own and I do in fact need some amount of sleep, I usually put him down between us, no pillows around, etc - in our king size bed. He has plenty of room there to lie flat and be safe. However, he turns on his side and starts ooching closer to me almost immediately - until we are touching. So, I have started just holding his hand in an attempt to keep him further away from my bedding and happy and safe. And, sleeping - so I can sleep too!
I am once again breastfeeding - and this child is not on any kind of a schedule yet. I feel as if LM got on a schedule sooner. Maybe he didn't. But this one - he wants to eat every 2 hours - around the clock. I pray he starts to spread these feedings out soon. For my sanity, and for our ability to get on a really good schedule before I go back to work and actually have to function in society...details.
He still has blondish hair and blue eyes - who knows if they will stay, but for now, they are beautiful. Of course, they are beautiful in any color. We are totally in love and so glad he is growing and is a healthy beautiful boy.
See you soon.